The Arecibo message was intended to be detectable at the globular cluster M13, which is 25,000 light-years away, although the answer to this question suggests that it could only be detected at 5,000 light-years. Other references besides that link are more optimistic, but they don't show their work. In any case, this is assuming a receiver as powerful as Arecibo.
But we haven't searched the whole sky with a telescope as powerful as Arecibo. The largest survey from that telescope I could find on a quick search was ALFALFA, which was to cover about 7000 square degrees of sky out of a total of more than 41,000. And I don't know if it was completed.
If we want more comprehensive coverage, the NRAO VLA Sky Survey has examined the entire sky north of 40° S. The linked site doesn't give the sensitivity in units I know how to translate into distance-at-which-you-could-detect-the-Arecibo-message, but the VLA is Very Large, so I feel like it ought to be able to detect a focused Arecibo message at something like 50 light years. This makes your first suggested negative result at least plausible, given that there have been other surveys.
But it would be unlikely that someone would be steadily beaming a message to us using their most powerful radio antenna for a long enough time that we would be sure to catch it on a sky survey, so it's still a pretty weak negative result.
As for the other version of the question, of whether we can rule out nearby aliens based on their incidental broadcasts, the general consensus is that we cannot so far. The answers to this question discuss this, with one giving an FAQ from the SETI Institute saying that, based on observations we've done, we would not yet have detected Alpha Centauri's TV broadcasts. (The other answer to that question is interesting but really addresses absolute detectability rather than what has been ruled out so far.)
My take, having written this up, is that the lack of obvious radio signals so far observed doesn't tell us much about whether extraterrestrial civilizations exist.
[Note - this was substantially revised after the first two comments.]
You seem to be Asking what conclusions might be drawn for the lack of results in SETI.
In total contrast, wouldn't the negative results of SETI in fact include calling Big Green Bogeymen down upon us?
Am I perhaps wrongly assuming SETI transmits as well as recieving?
– Robbie Goodwin Dec 24 '23 at 18:17