Okay so I followed this you tube video to make this ring and they way it is done on the video isn't working for me, I am not sure what the problem is. I have tried everything I found on the internet,!
advice from author 
activating the 3D print tool addon and running the solid to check for problems,
which it is saying I have some non manifold edges,!
which are there bc those sides do not have faces because I used a mirror modifier on x and y to complete my basic shape, but I don't know how that could be the problem with the boolean because that is how its done on the video and it works??
I have done everything i can think of, even rearranging the modifiers,results from the video
I have checked all the normals
I'm out of things to try, please help?