My title may be confusing, so let me explain. Let's take the molecule SO2 for example...
Above, you can see that the Sulfur atom has 6 electrons from its original valence shell involved in bonding/in a lone pair. However, if you add up these bonds, the atom has 10 electrons, not 8 (which disobeys the octet rule). I was told this is because sulfur has access to the d orbital of electrons. That makes sense, but why does it not get a 2- charge if it is getting 2 more electrons in it's valence shell?
Thanks!
Will
