Perhaps it helps.
Let's take two hydrogen and one oxygen atoms. They come together and react to form water by covalent bonds involving their valence electrons. Fine.
Now let us take a proton and an OH- ion. The ion will "datively" share is lone pair to the proton and water is formed. Again fine.
How do you resolve now what O-H bond is what? They are the same type of bond and does not help nor does have sense to make a distinction between them.
It is exactly what you have sketched. But the arrowed bond is not meaningful anymore as for the two electrons are one from O and one from H, nothing can keep track of history here.
Or as said in a comment: no concept on having a dative bond between ions.