In a real life situation, it depends on how you know that the family has 3 girls. Here are two different scenarios:
A. You run into the mother with 3 of her children with her that are all girls, and she tells you that she has a 4th child. Now the chance of the 4th child being a boy is $\frac{1}{2}$
B. You are in a room with a bunch of parents, and someone asks: 'who is a parent of exactly 4 children, at least 3 of which are girls?', and the mother of this family raises her hand. Now the probability of her 4th child being a boy is $\frac{4}{5}$, following exactly your explanation.
There may be other scenarios yet, leading to different answers yet, and some might even lead to a probability of $\frac{3}{4}$, but I think scenarios isomorph to either one of these two cases are most likely to happen in real life. So I don't like the answer of the book either.