Consider the inequality $$x_1+x_2+\dots+x_n \le m,$$
where $x_1,\dots,x_n$ are integer variables. We know that the numbers of positive and non-negative solution vectors $(x_1,\dots,x_n)$ satisfying this inequality are $\binom{m}{n}$ and $\binom{m+n}{n}$, respectively (see e.g., LINK-1 and LINK-2).
The number of non-negative integer solutions to $$|x_1|+|x_2|+\dots+|x_n| \le m,$$ is the same as the number of non-negative integer solutions to $$x_1+x_2+\dots+x_n \le m,$$
which is equal to $\binom{m+n}{n}$. For the same reason, the number of non-negative integer solutions to $$|x_1|+|x_2|+\dots+|x_m| \le n,$$ is equal to $\binom{m+n}{m}$. Since we have
$$\binom{m+n}{m} = \binom{m+n}{n},$$
we can conclude that the numbers of non-negative solutions to $\sum_{i=1}^{n} |x_i| \le m$ and $\sum_{i=1}^{m} |x_i| \le n$ are the same.
The general case:
Consider a non-negative solution of $\sum_{i=1}^{n} |x_i| \le m$ in which $1 \le k \le \min(m,n)$ variables are positive ($k>m$ is impossible). The number of such solutions is equal to the number of ways we can select $k$ variables from $n$ variables times the number of positive solutions to
$$x_1+x_2+\dots+x_k \le m.$$
Since there are $\binom{n}{k}$ ways to select $k$ variables from $n$ variables and there are $\binom{m}{k}$ positive solutions to the last inequality, there are $\binom{n}{k}\binom{m}{k}$ non-negative solutions to $\sum_{i=1}^{n} |x_i| \le m$ with $k$ positive variables. On the other hand, there are $2^k$ number of solutions corresponding to each of these solutions that can be achieved by changing sign of the variables. So the total number of integer solutions to $\sum_{i=1}^{n} |x_i| \le m$ would be
$$N_1 = 1+\sum_{k=1}^{\min(m,n)} 2^k \binom{n}{k}\binom{m}{k}.$$
Note that we added $1$ as we also need to consider the solution vector $(x_1,\dots,x_n) = (0,\dots,0)$. For the same reason, the number of solutions to $\sum_{i=1}^{m} |x_i| \le n$ is equal to
$$N_2 = 1+\sum_{k=1}^{\min(m,n)} 2^k \binom{m}{k}\binom{n}{k}.$$ It is clear that $N_1 = N_2$.