For the first problem:
Total possibilities for $20$ people to sit in a line is $20!$ If we wanted all of them to sit as couples, that would be $10!$ possibilities multiplied by $2^{10}$, because each couple can choose, which of them sits on the left chair and it doesn't change anything in our case.
If we need $k$ couples to sit together, this is $(20-k)!$ total possibilitites, multiplied with $2^k$ possibile arrangements within the couples. We don't forget, that there is a $\binom{n}{k}$ number of ways to choose the $k$ couples from the $n$ total.
Therefore, our formula is (it involves double countings, therefore the $-$ every second case):
$$(2n)! - 2^1{n \choose 1} (2n-1)!+ 2^2{n \choose 2} (2n-2)! - \cdots 2^k{n \choose k} (2n-k)! \cdots 2^n n!$$ $$=\sum_{k=0}^n (-2)^k{n \choose k} (2n-k)!$$
You can calculate it for $n=20$ and $k=10$.
The original source of this answer is this question, but I tried to write it down for your case.
You can also check it here: http://oeis.org/A007060