I have been trying around different ranges of summations:
$$ \sum_{(m,n) \in \mathbb{Z}^2} \frac{m^2 - n^2}{(m^2 + n^2)^2} = 0$$
That's not any good. What about if we restrict to $m, n \in \mathbb{Z}$ as positive integers.
$$ \sum_{m > 0, n > 0} \frac{m^2 - n^2}{(m^2 + n^2)^2} = 0$$
Now here's an anti-symmetry. I do not like taking out the symmetry, but perhaps I can ask about:
$$ \sum_{m > n > 0} \frac{m^2 - n^2}{(m^2 + n^2)^2} = \; ? \tag{$*$} $$
There doesn't seem to be a change of variables that can work. And we've used symmetry about as much as we can. This looks related to:
$$ \sum \frac{1}{n^2} = \frac{\pi^2}{6}$$
Perhaps this other series ($*$) also has a special value.