Say we have the group $D_8$ and we want to find the quotient group of all of its normal subgroups which are (as $D_8$ is nilpotent) the maximal subgroups $\langle r \rangle$ $ ,\langle r^2,s \rangle$ $\langle r^2,rs \rangle $, and also as we know their intersection is normal $\langle r^2 \rangle $. The rest are found to be not normal by simple checking .
For an example take $D_8$/$\langle r \rangle$$=\{\{r,r^2,r^3,e\},\{s,sr,sr^2,sr^3\}\}$. I've been trying to find a good answer to why this group is isomorphic to $C_2$ ( and in general how to show that a given quotient group is isomorphic to a certain group) , But everywher I've looked has used Cayley diagrams without fully explaining how they've decided the mappings they're using in the diagram. I'm not good at reading Cayley diagrams or making them due to lack of practice anyway ( it was never something that we were at thought at college and is something I'm only now thinking I should learn by myself) .
My question is without resorting to Cayley diagrams how can we decide this quotient group is isomorphic to $C_2$ (or in general how can we mathematically decide without the use of Cayley diagrams what a quotient group is isomorphic to ?).