Note that "$|A|=|A\times A|$ for all infinite sets $A$" is equivalent to the Axiom of Choice, this is a theorem by Tarski. So we will have to use the Axiom of Choice to prove the claim.
Here is how I would do it:
The Axiom of Choice is equivalent to the Well-Ordering Theorem, which states that it is possible to define a well-order on any set. If $A$ is a set, then $<$ is a well-order on $A$ if $<$ is a total order and if every nonempty subset of $A$ has a least element (with respect to $<$). I believe in Lang this is called inductively ordered.
Therefore, for every infinite set $A$, we can find a well-order $<$ of $A$. In fact, we can do even better: we can find a minimal well-order, in the sense that this minimal well-order has an order-embedding into any other well-order of $A$. This is what is meant with aleph numbers, in a rough way.
Now, the way to show that $A$ and $A\times A$ have the same cardinality, is by defining a well-order $<_{cw}$ of $A\times A$ using some minimal well-order $<$ of $A$, and then showing that $\langle A\times A,<_{cw}\rangle$ and $\langle A,<\rangle$ are order-isomorphic.
This is what is done in this question & answer.