Let $\mathcal X\times\mathcal Y$ be a measurable product space and $\mu$, $\nu$ probability measures on $\mathcal X\times\mathcal Y$ such that $\nu\ll\mu$. Then there exists a Radon-Nikodym derivative $R:\mathcal X\times\mathcal Y\rightarrow\mathbb R_{\ge 0}$ of $\nu$ with respect to $\mu$. If $\mathcal Y$ is a Borel space (equivalently countably generated, which covers Polish spaces with their Borel algebra, see here and here), a disintegration exists (Theorem 3.4 in Kallenberg's book, definition of Borel is the "same", above Theorem 1.8), and this is why we assume that $\mathcal Y$ is a Borel space.
Let the probability measure $\mu_1$ on $\mathcal X$ and the Markov kernel $\mu_x$, $x\in\mathcal X$, be a disintegration of $\mu$, as given by Theorem 3.4 above.
Recall that $R_1(x)=\int R(x,y)\mu_x(\mathrm d y)$ is measurable.
So, if we define $R_{2,x}(y)=0$ whenever $R_1(x)=0$ and $R_{2,x}(y)=R(x,y)/R_{1}(x)$, then $R_{2,x}$ is both $\mathcal X\times\mathcal Y$ and $\mathcal Y$-measurable (Lemma 1.28 in Kallenberg). Notice that $\int R_{2,x}(y)\mu_x(\mathrm d y)=1$ by the definition of $R_1$, whenever $R_1(x)\neq 0$.
Also, notice that $\int R_1\mu_1(\mathrm d x)=\int\int R(x,y)\mu_x(\mathrm d y)\mu_1(\mathrm d x)=\int R(x,y)\mu(\mathrm dx,\mathrm d,y)=1$ is a Radon-Nikodym derivative. So, let $\nu_1$ be given by $R_1$ with respect to $\mu_1$. Since $\{x:R_1(x)=0\}$ is clearly a null set of $\nu_1$, we have $R_{2,x}(y)=R(x,y)/R_1(x)$ $\nu_1$-almost everywhere, and in particular we have $\nu_x$ given by the Radon-Nikodym derivative $R_{2,x}(y)$ with respect to $\mu_x$. Otherwise, let $y\in\mathcal Y$ be some fixed point and let $\nu_y$ be the one-point mass on $y$.
Notice that $\nu_x$ is a Markov kernel since for any fixed $\mathcal E$ the map $f:\mathcal X\rightarrow[0,1]$, $x\mapsto\nu_x(\mathcal E)$ is given by $f(x)=\int R_{2,x}(y)\mu_x(\mathrm dy)$ on $R_1(x)\neq 0$ and $f(x)=\unicode{120793}\{y\in\mathcal E\}$ otherwise, both of which are measurable.
Now, we show that $\nu_1$, $\nu_x$ is a disintegration of $\nu$.
Notice that
\begin{align*}
\int f(x,y)\nu(\mathrm dx,\mathrm dy)
&=\int R(x,y)f(x,y)\mu(\mathrm dx,\mathrm dy)=\int R_1(x)\int R_{2,x}(y)f(x,y)\mu_x(\mathrm{d}y)\mu_1(\mathrm{d}x)\\
&=\int\int f(x,y)\nu_x(\mathrm dy)\nu_1(\mathrm dx).
\end{align*}
The second step is justified by the fact that the $\{R_1(x)=0\}$ contribution to the integral is $0$. This shows that $\nu_1$, $\nu_x$ is a disintegration of $\nu$.
Finally, by definition $\nu_x$ is absolutely continuous with respect to $\mu_x$, well, $\nu_1$-almost everywhere (which is all that we need).
I run into problems like this all the time, that is, conditional probabilities, conditional Radon-Nikodym derivatives, conditional relative entropies (as of now), where I struggle to figure out the general definitions (in this case conditional derivatives), only to realize that they are straightforward, the problem only being that we need additional assumptions to ensure that this, only possible, definition is reasonable (usually Borel spaces, which give access to kernel theory, or we just work with kernels in the first place, then we don't need the assumption. Potato potato).