In my modal logic book it's written that, for each frame $F(S,R)$ the accessibility relation $R$ is reflexive IF AND ONLY IF the scheme T:$\square A \implies A$ is valid in $F$.
Even if I can easily prove that reflexivity $\implies$ T, I can't prove that T $\implies$ reflexivity.
As a counterexample I show a model $M(S,R,V)$ where $S=\{\alpha,\beta\}$, $R=\{(\alpha,\beta),(\beta,\alpha)\}$ and $V(A)=\{\alpha,\beta\}$. In this model T is true for both $\alpha$ and $\beta$, but R is not reflexive. What am I doing wrong? what is the right way to demonstrate T $\implies$ reflexivity?