Let us consider the following property which is a constrained version of $(\star)$ (see Remark below):
$$\begin{align*}\bbox[#EFF,15px,border:2px solid blue] {\begin{aligned}\text{For any n, for any} \ \ a_1,\ldots,a_n \text{with}\\ \sum_{i=1}^{n}a_i=0,\text{and} \ x_1,\ldots,x_n > 0,\\ \ \ \ \ \ \ \ \ \ \ \ \ S:=\sum_{i,j=1}^n a_ia_j\ln(x_i+x_j)\leq 0\end{aligned}}\end{align*}\tag{*}$$
Extensive numerical simulations have convinced me that (*) holds.
case $n=2$ is very simple to establish : it is a direct consequence of ordinary Arithmetic-Geometric inequality.
case $n=3$ is more complicated. I have found a proof which is interesting in itself (see below) using the weighed version of Arithmetic-Geometric inequality.
Proof for the case $n=3$.
I will use the following notations:
$$\begin{cases}x:=x_1& \ \ y:=x_2& \ \ z:=x_3 \\ a:=a_1& \ \ b:=a_2& \ \ c:=a_3=-a-b,\end{cases}$$
Due to the fact that the LHS of (*), is homogeneous with degree $2$, property (1) is preserved by any change of the form $(a,b,c) \to (ka,kb,kc), \ \ k \in \mathbb{R}$). Therefore, we can assume WLOG that we are in the case where
$$a>0, \ \ \ b>0, \ \ \ c=-a-b<0$$
Property (*) can be written under the following form:
$$\ln[(2x)^{a^2}(2y)^{b^2}(2z)^{c^2}(x+y)^{2ab}(x+z)^{2ac}(y+z)^{2bc}] \leq 0$$
Otherwise said:
$$(2x)^{a^2}(2y)^{b^2}(2z)^{(-a-b)^2}(x+y)^{2ab}(x+z)^{2a(-a-b)}(y+z)^{2b(-a-b)} \leq 1$$
which can be transformed into:
$$\left(\frac{4xz}{(x+z)^2}\right)^{a^2}\left(\frac{4yz}{(y+z)^2}\right)^{b^2}\left(\frac{2z(x+y)}{(x+z)(y+z)}\right)^{2ab} \leq 1\tag{1}$$
An important point here is that (1) is doubly homogeneous, more precisely, is invariant by a homogeneous change of variable of any of the two following kinds:
$$(x,y,z) \to \mu(x,y,z) , \ \ \ \ (a,b) \to \lambda(a,b) \ \text{already used above}$$
This allows us to replace
$z$ by $1$.
$(a,b)$ by $\left(\frac{a}{a+b}, \frac{b}{a+b}\right)$ resp.
Therefore, by the weighted Arithmetic-Geometric means inequality, (1) will be proven if the (weighted) Arithmetic Mean is itself less than $1$ :
$$\frac{a^2}{(a+b)^2}\left(\frac{4x}{(x+1)^2}\right)+\frac{b^2}{(a+b)^2}\left(\frac{4y}{(y+1)^2}\right)+\frac{2ab}{(a+b)^2}\left(\frac{2(x+y)}{(x+1)(y+1)}\right) \leq 1\tag{2}$$
$$\left(\frac{4a^2x}{(x+1)^2}\right)+\left(\frac{4b^2y}{(y+1)^2}\right)+\left(\frac{4ab(x+y)}{(x+1)(y+1)}\right) \leq a^2+2ab+b^2\tag{3}$$
which is equivalent, by grouping everything on the LHS, to
$$a^2\frac{4x-(x+1)^2}{(x+1)^2}+b^2\frac{4y-(y+1)^2}{(y+1)^2}+2ab\frac{2(x+y)-(x+1)(y+1)}{(x+1)(y+1)} \leq 0$$
Or equivalently:
$$-a^2\frac{(x-1)^2}{(x+1)^2}-b^2\frac{(y-1)^2}{(y+1)^2}-2ab\frac{(x-1)(y-1)}{(x+1)(y+1)} \leq 0$$
giving
$$-\left(a\frac{x-1}{x+1}+b\frac{y-1}{y+1}\right)^2 \leq 0 \tag{4}$$
which is evidently true.
Remark: equality holds in (4) if $x=y=z=1$.
Now, I have two questions:
How can relationship (*) be established for a general dimension $n$ (Generalisation of the above proof ? Other approaches ?)
Is there some theory behind all that ?
Remark: This question is in fact a follow up of a recent question that has been closed because the claimed property has counter-examples.
The previous question was :
Given $a_1,\ldots,a_n,x_1,\ldots,x_n\in\mathbf{R}$ with $\sum_{i=1}^{n}a_i=0$, prove that $$S=\sum_{i,j}a_ia_j\ln|x_i+x_j|\leq 0 \tag{$\star$}$$
Property $(\star)$ has counter-examples. For example, if $n=3$, taking
$$(a_1,a_2,a_3)=(1,0,-1) \ \ \text{and} \ \ (x_1,x_2,x_3)=(-1,-1,2)$$
gives $S > 0$.