I wonder several questions about Cayley graphs of finite Heisenberg groups H3(Z/nZ).
Question 1: do we know the diameter dependence on "n", at least for the standard choice of generators ? What about some other choices ?
Question 2: Is it true/known that the distance distribution approaches the Gaussian for large "n" ? What are the m,sigma ? What is the rate of the convergence ? (For standard generators and is something known for other choices of generators ? ).
Motivation: As far as I understand for generic non-commutative groups/their generators we can expect exponential growth at least to nearby diameter, while for commutative-like the the distribution would be Gaussian like with the mode of the distribution placed quite far from the diameter. See examples e.g. here .
Question 3: Are there some general results stating that for some class on say nilpotent groups, for their finite quotients, the distance distribution would tend to Gaussian ? (For example unitriangular/related matrices over Z/nZ).
PS
Here are some simulation for Heisenberg groups for standard and a bit-bit non-standard generators. One can find some more background/info at the head of the linked notebook.
Heisenberg group with two standard generators <x,y>
https://www.kaggle.com/code/alexandervc/santa23-growth-heisenberg-group?scriptVersionId=158703270&cellId=16

Heisenberg group with three generators (standard <x,y> and their commutator "z")
https://www.kaggle.com/code/alexandervc/santa23-growth-heisenberg-group?scriptVersionId=158703218&cellId=16
