Taking answers and comments into account, my own current conclusion is that velocity is an intensive property, provided the system considered is homogeneous, at least with respect to speed. Like other intensive properties, this may depend on scale, and cease to have meaning at molecular level.
I did not intend to write an answer to my own question but ... writing
the question is usually a good way to better understand the issue and
to find the answer. I could have added this to the question, as there
are remaining issues at the end. But the question is already long, and this is long too. Hence it seemed better to do it this way.
I initially looked at speed as a ratio because I know it as the ratio of a
distance to a time. But that was much without thinking, and is the wrong way to look at it,
especially since I do not know too much what distance and time may be. I actually stayed with speed, or rather velocity, when I realized I would not see the meaning of adding many speeds, which was a variant of my original database problem.
But then, I realized that velocity is a ratio in a
different way: $\overrightarrow{V}=\overrightarrow{P}/M$, i.e.,
velocity is the ratio of the momentum (vector) by the mass.
And then, David Hammen's answer timely reminded me that momentum is
additive in Newtonian mechanics, when considering the motion of
several bodies in the same frame, and also that velocity is not ... which
confirms that, if anything, it is not extensive.
Indeed, if I take the answer of Nathaniel to another question, as well
as the definition of the IUPAC Green Book, recalled in the wikipedia
page, additivity is what characterizes an extensive property. I
must then conclude that (linear) momentum is an extensive property,
and velocity is not.
The same reasonning and conclusion applies to mass (this seems
generally agreed upon :-).
Since velocity is the ratio of the momentum vector by the mass, it
ensues that velocity must be an intensive property of a system.
This justifies that velocity (or speed) is not additive, in the sense
that you cannot make a large system from smaller parts, and add the
velocities of the parts to get the velocity of the whole.
But this conclusion is in contradiction with David Hammen's view that
velocity is not intensive, though he does not really say why, and I do
not see why his formula for the velocity of the center of mass should
be a problem.
However, I think that a requirement (stated only in examples, but not
in definitions in the documents I have) is that intensive properties
are meaningful only in homogeneous systems in equilibrium (which was
just confirmed by the comment of CuriousOne. With regard to velocity,
that would mean that it can apply only when the system considered is velocity-homogeneous. or
somehow merge into a single homogenous system. Maybe it could apply to
the collision of gas clouds in space, or of water blobs in zero
gravity (in a space ship). There are probably other examples of fluids
that can merge and balance momentum to reach equilibrium, without
breaking apart.
That should make velocity an intensive property.
Velocities may be added when considering relative velocities of different
systems with respect to each other. But that is a completely different
situation, and it has nothing to do with merging
several systems into a single system, and properly "combining" their velocities. It is unlikely to lead anyone to add together a large
number of velocities, as one might add many momenta when having a
large number of bodies merged into a single system.
In the above discussion I have been considering blobs or clouds of
fluid as exemple, as that seem necessary to be able to talk of merging
two systems. However, there is no need for such restriction when just
considering a single system, say a stone or a cube of iron. If
velocity as an intensive property makes sense at all, it does make
sense for any velocity-homogeneous, and that certainly
applies to a solid.
When considering relativistic velocities, there is no reason the question should
lose its meaning.
A supernova can expel clouds of material at 10% of the speed of light,
which may be considered a relativistic speed as it corresponds to a 1%
discrepency between Newtonian and relativistic mechanics. I guess that
such a cloud, or part of it, could hit and other cloud and merge with
it into an ultimately homogeneous cloud (but I have zero expertise on
such phenomena). The penultimate paragraph of David Hammen's answer,
as well as the comment by Void, seem to indicate that things still
work at relativistic speed, provided the right properties are used
(such as relativistic momentum according to David Hammen, or four-momentum
and four-velocity according to Void).).
Finally, a supported comment by leftaroundabout suggests that "intensive vs. extensive only
makes any sense for true scalar quantities", but without further
justification. I am wondering why that should be. Besides, this seems
in disagreement with the Wikipedia page that lists magnetization as an
intensive property. But magnetization is a vector field.
Similarly, I do understand Danu's answer that the concepts of
intensive and extensive properties were developed as useful tools for
studying thermodynamics (I did read a bit before asking my
question). But according to the wikipedia page, they are already used
in other contexts, and I do not see why that should exclude
considering velocity, when statistically as homogeneous, as I explained above.