The lead bird does gain something from the V - it's the same principle as the spoiler on the back of a car.
The vortices from the wings of the bird would create a low pressure region immediately behind it, which in simple terms sucks the bird back. The following bird prevents this vortex by splitting the upper and lower air flows with it's wings and so on - until it reaches the last trailing bird.
Although the front bird still does the most work, it does save a few % of it's energy, and similarly the last bird, although it benefits from the birds in front does pay an extra few % for the vortex behind it.