The neutron source would then be the $$^9\text{Be} + \alpha \to \,^{12}\text{C} + \text{n}$$ reaction. You would need the normal Beryllium-$9$, an alpha emitter and water, which could simultaneously serve as a moderator (slowing down the neutrons a little) and a target (where the neutrons could then fuse with the protons).
Old fuel rods could perhaps be used as alpha emitters. The Uranium-$238$ contained in them (the non-fissile one) is an alpha emitter.
One would get the nominal Carbon-$12$, deuterium but unfortunately also decay products of Uranium.
The reactor would have to be designed in such a way that the uranium decay products, the carbon and the heavy water could be removed from the reactor and new materials could be spat out.
This would require a medium level of effort for radiation protection.
The question is whether it is then so productive in terms of energy production. $2.2$ MeV per proton-neutron fussion. The alpha particle of Uranium-$238$ has $4.2$ MeV. Ideally, this is then braked down to $2.6$ MeV. There is then a certain probability that a neutron with $740$ keV will be produced, which in turn must reach thermal velocities ($100$ meV range). And then, with a certain probability, there is again this proton-neutron fusion.
That means, if such a reaction chain runs ideally, we get $$2.2 \text{ MeV} + (4.2-2.6) \text{ MeV} + (740-0.0001)\text{ keV} = 4.5 \text{ MeV}.$$
Average energy consumption per household is $22,400$ kWh per year. This means an average power of $2.56$ kW. This would require $3.56\times 10^{15}$ perfect reaction runs.
This means that $1.4\times10^{-6}$ grams of Uranium, $0.05$ grams of Beryllium and $0.0059$ grams of Hydrogen would be consumed per second.
To calculate the costs for this, I found the following values for Uranium and Beryllium: Uranium $19.45$ euros per gram and Beryllium between $0.30$ and $1.50$ euros per gram depending on the quality.
This means that the main cost is the Uranium. A kilowatt hour would therefore cost about $4$ cents. In terms of generation costs, this would lie between a nuclear power plant and a coal-fired power plant. If I have calculated correctly.
Because then all sorts of things like the EEG surcharge and the profits of the corporations and others are added to the electricity prices, we then pay around $9$ times this price. So a proton-neutron reactor for the home might even be worthwhile.
Okay, that was the ideal case. Of course, the disposal of the radioactive material costs money. The deuterium could possibly even be sold.
Then, of course, you need a bit more material, e.g. more water as a moderator. And not every reaction chain runs ideally.