When I study math for physics applications I always have some trouble in understanding why it's necessary to abstract the objects we study (vector spaces, scalar product, manifolds, groups...). In the beginning I thought it was to demonstrate theorems in a way that is valid for many cases but then I noticed it's also useful in order to derive equivalent descriptions of the same things (for example using isomorphisms). Besides, physical laws can change in form when I use strange maps to describe the problems. And in general I realize that the description we start with is just one of many and it isn't special. However I still have trouble with this topic and I'd like to read a book that explain these things (I don't need a book that explain math for physics) Do you have any suggestions?
Maybe it is useful to give you an example of the problem I would like to solve, often I don't understand if I'm doing math that already has a physical meaning or I'm just doing math without any physical meaning. Easy speaking, I lose the connection between math and reality.