When a stone is thrown in water, water waves are created. The stone imparts its kinetic energy to water. Likewise a sound speaker imparts its kinetic energy to air molecules. When an electron falls down to a lower orbital, it releases a photon; photons constitute electromagnetic waves. It is said that when two black holes merge, they produce gravitational waves which travel through spacetime at speed of light.
I understand that mass could affect spacetime. A mass could distort spacetime, a rotating mass body could drag the spacetime along with it, etc. Coming back to the merger of two black holes. Informally speaking, when the black holes merge, there must be a kind of unfathomably rapid and huge blast and this blast creates a kind of sonic boom, and this is a crude description of generation of gravitational waves. It'd mean that spacetime is as real as it could be. If it was just a math object and not a real or physical the gravitational waves won't be able to propagate. The spacetime is the medium for gravitational waves.
I was reading this answer by @JohnRennie https://physics.stackexchange.com/a/156327/84624 where he says that spacetime is just a mathematical construct in general relativity and therefore when the space expands nothing new is created and nothing is stretched. Is spacetime just a math construct or what? Where am I going wrong? Could you please guide me?
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Replying to this comment, Gravitational waves manifestation of 'physical' spacetime? I didn't intend to pose a question in disguise. The reason being that one of my questions was closed as being a duplicate (though, in my humble opinion, it was not) and I was directed to a question where JohnRennie had answered. As a layman, I would say, JohnRennie's answer is too rigid, especially in the context of my closed question. Not sure if my question is waiting deletion but it's still accessible: Relationship between expanding space and dark energy
I don't think Einstein, 'founder' of spacetime, himself really thought of spacetime just as a math construct. He was convinced that there is more to the spacetime. Even some notable physicists went on to say that Einstein got rid of one aether for his one theory and went to embrace another form of aether for his other theory.
The following quote is first paragraph from Einstein's essay.
If we are here going to talk about the ether, we are not, of course, talking about the physical or material ether of the mechanical theory of undulations, which is subject to the laws of Newtonian mechanics, to the points of which are attributed a certain velocity .This theoretical edifice has, I am convinced, finally played out its role since the setting up of the special theory of relativity. It is rather more generally a question of those kinds of things that are considered as physically real, which play a role in the causal nexus of physics, apart from the ponderable matter that consists of electrical elementary particles. Therefore, instead of speaking of an ether, one could equally well speak of physical qualities of space. Now one could take the position that all physical objects fall under this category, because in the final analysis in a theory of fields the ponderable matter, or the elementary particles that constitute this matter, also have to be considered as ‘fields’ of a particular kind, or as particular ‘states' of the space. But one would have to agree that, at the present state of physics, such a point of view would be premature, because up to now all efforts directed to this aim in theoretical physics have led to failure. In the present situation we are de facto forced to make a distinction between matter and fields, while we hope that later generations will be able to overcome this dualistic concept, and replace it with a unitary one, such as the field theory of today has sought in vain.
On the Ether, Albert Einstein, 1924