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I have read an explanation about the expanding universe which represents our universe as a metal plate that tends to expand simultaneously in all directions while being heated. One can imagine that some stars and maybe galaxies as small metal balls welded to this plate and there is a bunch of such small balls that become further from each other while the plane is being heated.
My understanding
What I do not understand is whether the distances also grow being measured in the units of a system itself: If we also scratch a coordinate grid on this plane say let's make a grid where each cell is $1 \times 1 ~ cm$ before we start heating. It is clear that the distance measured in these very cells will remain the same no matter how the grid has expanded. But if we will measure with a ruler that was not heated we will see that the distances had changed.
The question
Finally the question: when physicists say that the universe expands do they also mean that the distances do not change as in the scratched grid metaphor?