I've been struggling with proposed answers to the twin paradox. I know that an object traveling at relativistic speed ages slower than a stationary object. This must be caused by some interaction with spacetime that leads to a slowing of time. But how does this work when we are looking at relative time dilation between two or more individuals.
Imagine a huge crowd of relativistic rockets moving inertially and crossing each other in all directions at different velocities. How can one pilot claim to be younger than another, while the other is younger than a third who is younger than the first?
Then it came to me that this all might just be the same as relativistic length contraction where it is only occurs while they are in motion, and all effects stop once they stop moving. Once they stop the only age effects are measured against an earth clock.
We know that for kinetic length contraction, the man on the train station platform will see the relativistic train length contracted while the main on the train will see the train station platform length contracted. But the instant the train stops moving, all measurements return to normal. Is it the same with the twin paradox? That any age difference as seen by one pilot over another disappears once the motion stops? And the only real aging is when measured against an earth clock?