I'm having trouble finding sufficient answers that don't boil down to discussing materials.
Some people say that if a photon does not excite an electron it doesn't interact with it at all and just goes through the atom. Other people say that photons are always absorbed, it's just that if they don't have the "right" amount of energy they are immediately reemitted (and in this case I would like to know how: Are these photons emitted along the previous trajectory, along a new trajectory, both?). And are terms like "transmission" and "reflection" at all applicable to single atoms or do they only pertain to arrangements of atoms aka materials?