My question is asking for evaluation of a new concept or paradigm within the framework of the current mainstream physics understanding of Relativity. Specifically, that concept or paradigm being that, “it seems we do not seem to actually observe ourselves or anything else heading into a future, or leaving a temporal past behind us, or observe that a future is constantly arriving, or a past receding, or a thing called time passing, Therefore it may be possible that the universe is just as it actually appears to be, I.e. Just filled with matter(/energy), just, existing, changing, moving and interacting at various rates in all directions".
Evaluating this concept within Relativity; in Einstein's On the Electrodynamics of Moving Bodies section 1, it is stated (para 3) that...
If we wish to describe the motion of a material point, we give the values of its co-ordinates as functions of the time.
But the example given only says...
If, for instance, I say, “That train arrives here at 7 o'clock,” I mean something like this: “The pointing of the small hand of my watch to 7 and the arrival of the train are simultaneous events.”
So, in fact it seems the motion of a material point (the train), is only actually compared to the location and/or motion of another material point (a small rotating hand), but the motion of this second material point is just called “time”.
i.e. It seems logically no reason is given why we should assume that the train, and the pointer or “hand” are not just constantly existing, and moving or not, somewhere. That is, no reason is cited to assume the rotating hand is not just a rotating hand, or that a thing called time actually is passing, or that anything is other than existing and moving “simultaneously” ( to use a possibly redundant word).
However, as Relativity (imo legitimately) does show that moving objects are changing within themselves more slowly, it seems to also infer from this that,
we cannot attach any absolute signification to the concept of simultaneity
Suggesting there might be genuine discrepancies about “simultaneity”, or even the order of events (for observers in different locations, moving at relative speed etc).
But, extra to just “calling” the rotation of a hand on a dial “time”, the passage of a thing called “time”, and the concept of non-simultaneity being legitimate (i.e. the idea there are different times), does not seem to actually be demonstrated in the paper.
So, why should we accept the idea...
we cannot attach any absolute signification to the concept of simultaneity,
If it has not been shown that anything is other than "simultaneous" - (or rather "just happening"), rather than just considering that everything, may just always be somewhere, doing something, at relativistically dilated rates, but still just somewhere, “now”?