Please help me understand what the paradox or disconnect is between quantum mechanics and general relativity. With my very simple understanding of each, there appears to be harmony to me.
Specifically: Through classical physics, we know that waves are energy. Thought quantum field theory, we know matter is made of waves. Through Einstein, we know energy equals mass (proportionately) Through relativity, we know matter has mass and curves spacetime
Therefore, all matter is wave energy and these waves curve spacetime
I guess it’s metaphorically like waves in the ocean that curve the surface of the ocean.
This all seems to fit together to me, but I’m clearly missing something (a lot), to understand why this is one of the greatest unsolved problems in physics.
Thank you for explaining it to an amateur like me.