So my textbook says that the reaction forces between two surfaces in
contact can be resolved into the normal reaction, which is normal to
the surface and friction, which is parallel to the the surface.
This statement is true only if there is friction between the surfaces and if there is a component of an externally applied force that acts parallel to the surface. Otherwise the only reaction force will be the force normal to the surface. You didn't put your book statement in context, but it sounds like it is referring to an object on an inclined plane with friction. That example does not apply to a horizontal surface where there is no external horizontal force applied to the object.
However, if friction is a reaction force, then I don't understand how
frictionless surfaces can exist. On a previous question I asked about a car using friction to move, one of the answers claimed that static friction was a reaction force.
Static friction force is a reaction force, but it only exists in opposition to an externally applied force parallel to the surface. In the case of the car the static friction force exists due to the torque applied to the wheel. Without any force applied by the wheel to the surface there would be no static friction force.
If an object rests on a horizontal surface with or without friction, and there is no externally applied horizontal force on the object, the only reaction reaction force is the force normal to the surface in opposition to the weight of the object. There is no friction force. The character of the surface is irrelevant since there is no external horizontal force to be opposed by friction.
Furthermore, this indicates that in frictionless surfaces, the
parallel component doesn't exist. This means that the normal force
will be equal to the vector sum of the reaction forces and I cannot
understand how a vector sum will always yield a force normal to the
surface, which means there's a problem here somewhere.
I'm not quite sure of what you are saying when you refer to the "parallel component", but again it sounds like you may be thinking that a parallel friction force will always exist as a component of the reaction force on a surface. As I've shown above, it is not.
Perhaps the free body diagrams below will help. The top diagram shows an object and a frictionless surface. The bottom diagram shows the same but with a surface with friction. The diagrams show action-reaction pairs per Newton's 3rd law. There is no friction reaction force in the top diagram because there is no friction between the surfaces. The only reaction force at the surface is the normal force.
Note that a friction reaction force exists in the bottom diagram in opposition to the applied force $F$ due to friction between the surfaces. Here the static friction force equals the externally applied force so the net force is zero. However, if the externally applied force $F$ were removed from the bottom diagram, the friction reaction force no longer exists to oppose it, even though the surfaces are rough. The net force will still be zero and the only reaction force at the surface will be the normal reaction force.
if a force is at an oblique angle to the surface, there will be a
component that is parallel to the surface and normal to it as forces
can be resolved into two components. However if it is a frictionless
surface, you say it will not exist. Why not? You said in case of a
frictionless surface, the only reaction is the normal force. In this
case, the vector sum can always be resolved into one component, normal
to the surface. I cannot gain intuition regarding this
I have added two more diagrams to show an oblique applied force $F$, and labeled all the diagrams Figures 1-4.
Figure 3 is for a frictionless surface. It shows an oblique force $F$ applied to the mass $M$. The force $F$ is resolved into its x- and y- force components as shown. The y- component of the force adds to the downward weight of the mass and equals the normal reaction at the surface, for a net force of zero and no vertical acceleration.
There is no friction force so there is no reaction force at the surface. The reaction force to the x- component of the applied force is directed at the source of the applied force (source not shown). This satisfies Newton's 3rd law. But since there is no friction opposing the x- component of the force applied to the mass $M$, there is a net force in the x- direction to the left and per Newton's 2nd law and the block $M$ accelerates to the left.
Figure 4 shows the same situation as Figure 3, but now there is a static friction force opposes and equals the x- component of the applied force $F$ as long as $F_x$ does not exceed the maximum static friction force of $μ_{s}Mg$. So there is now a net force of zero in the x direction and the block does not accelerate. Note, however, that there is still the action-reaction pair of forces between $M$ and the source of $F$ per Newton's 3rd law. That doesn't matter if there is friction or not.
I'm afraid I don't have any more time to put into this, so I hope this finally helps.


