I'm an undergrad engineering student and I need some guidance to help me understand a few issues regarding classical electromagnetism (EM).
I'm interested in engineering applications where there is an interaction between EM and matter (e.g., microfluidics technology, electrokinetic phenomena, magnetic resonance technology, plasma technology, etc).
Based on my readings so far, it appears that many applications of EM-matter interactions can't be fully understood or modeled without at least some quantum mechanics. I'm increasingly finding myself unable to predict if a certain EM-matter interaction can be modeled using only classical EM, or if quantum mechanics is needed.
Some would say classical EM is valid as long as "too small/too fast" conditions are avoided. But this doesn't really help much. Even common everyday phenomena such as an EM radiation passing or reflecting from matter can't be fully understood without some quantum mechanics. I presume they may respond by indicating that this is actually a molecular-scale phenomenon, since the radiation is interacting with the molecule itself. However, by this reasoning, everything would require quantum modeling, even the molecules of my hand pushing against the molecules of a door knob, since it is a molecular-scale interaction.
To summarize:
How come many engineering EM books spend so much time describing all sorts of EM-matter interactions without any mention of QM? (e.g., propagation of EM waves through matter (i.e., conductors, dielectrics), reflection of EM waves from matter, etc). Why is a classical modeling sufficient for such EM-matter interactions?
How can I predict if quantum mechanics is needed for a particular application involving EM-matter interactions? (P.S. I'm aware of the "too small/too fast" rule of thumb. Please see the last paragraph in my post).
Edit: A few clarifications:
I'm not asking about field quantization (i.e. QED/second quantization). I'm only focusing on quantization of electrons.
I was mainly looking for a guiding principle that allows me to predict when quantization is needed. Or is it the case that there are no such principles and I simply have to recall a list of exceptions to classical EM (as in UVphoton's reply)?
Thank you for your help!