I am thinking that they aren't strictly compatible. I have the following logical argument for this:
The unitary evolution postulate says that the state of a system is given by a time-depending state vector $\psi (t)$ which evolves unitarily.
For the physical theory to have predictability, the parameter $t$ in $\psi (t)$ must be proportional to the time measured on the experimenter's clock.
According to general relativity, the number of ticks measured on the experimenter's clock is proportional to the proper time along their worldline.
The proper time along the worldline is defined in terms of an integral involving the metric tensor.
The metric tensor is coupled to the stress-energy tensor.
According to quantum field theory, the stress-energy tensor is not a classical entity and has quantum-uncertainties.
This means that the proper time along the experimenter's worldline is strictly not well-defined in a fully quantum theory. This kills the unitary evolution postulate because you can't have unitary evolution when its parameter isn't well defined.
The above proves that the parameter of unitary evolution is well-defined only in semi-classical contexts where the proper time of the experimenter's worldline is well-defined. This semi-classical theory cannot be a fundamental theory because it's making quantum mechanics reliant on classical mechanics.
This also means that a fully quantum theory gravity cannot obey the usual postulates of quantum theories.
What, if anything, is wrong with this argument?