- We are taught that the electromagnetic force is one fundamental force -> what and why is this split between electic and magnetic forces?
We found out that electric and magnetic fields can be converted partially into each other and thus cannot be studied completely separately from each other, but rather must be merged into one coherent understanding. However, at the same time, we can mathematically prove that a pure electric field will never be able to be converted into a pure magnetic field, and vice versa, and so it is necessary to have both, not just one of them. They simply differ in their behaviour, both in Maxwell's equations, and in the Abraham-Lorentz force law.
- The electric field acts on charged particles (+ or -), -> the magnetic field acts on dipoles? Do I need to categorically split materials into electric ones and magnetic ones?
From here onwards you need to know an important fact:
Every magnetic dipole is mathematically equivalent to a tiny Ampère-ian loop of wire with a current flowing through it, both in how it sets up a magnetic field that way, and in how it would be affected by externally applied magnetic fields. This means that you can mathematically replace all magnetic stuff to just talking about electric charges.
The electric field acts on charges, and magnetic field acts on moving charges, both governed by the Abraham-Lorentz force law. Then you can derive how magnetic field acts on magnets, since a magnet would just be equivalent to many loops of wire with current in them.
- From a book: "All static magnetic fields are produced by moving electric charge." -> then how do I understand ordinary [magnets] that are not connected to any power source?
Actually, these are often mostly about the spins of the electrons or ions inside the magnetic materials, and thus should not be considered as actually having currents moving at all. However, as mentioned above, even this spin is to be mathematically converted into loops of wire, and it is in that form that we might pretend that this statement is true.
- The force of a magnetic field on a charged particle (I assume something like an electron) is dependent on the speed of said particle. -> Then what is the force between two non-moving magnets?, and on what exactly is it acting?
The loop of wire with current in it would have a certain magnetic moment. The coupling of the magnetic moment to the magnetic field brings about a certain energy term, and that is just the same as an electric dipole v.s. an electric field. If you look up the Wiki page for the many terms above, in particular the magnetic moment, you will find out how we deal with things.
However, again, this is a simplification, albeit one that trades a tremendous amount of vector integral calculus into a much simpler thing to deal with, basically opening up the analysis that would otherwise be too much for a beginner. You could, however, learn to integrate the forces two loops of wire with current flowing through them would exert on each other, if you really so wish; even though this is but a mathematical exercise of very little practical physical insight and physical utility.