I have two points where I would need clarification:
Neutrinos are present in the early universe as flavor eigenstates and as such they decouple from the thermal bath, I guess. However, today, at least one mass eigenstate is non-relativistic, which destroys coherence. So, I am confused about this flavor eigenstates decoupling and then being composed of three mass eigenstates, one of them becoming non-relativistic at some point.
Does gravity play a role in any of this? I mean, the interaction of gravitons with neutrinos (you can also imagine a sterile neutrino produced through the Dodelson-Widrow mechanism) would make their wave function to collapse, making them mass eigenstates?