I'm not a Ubuntu expert, but I've just ran top on a Ubuntu server box and Terminal has highlighted the results in red, it looks pretty high to me.

Is this right? I'm only really running Apache and Node.js on there. What can I do to bring down the memory?
topsorted by resident size (RES) is a good starting point) and it may be reopened. – voretaq7 Jun 17 '13 at 21:38