Reads do not contribute to the expected lifetime of an SSD. Reads are easy. It is only data written that has an effect on lifetime of the device as it is typically the erase cycles that degrade the flash cells.
The term you are looking for is "Terabytes Written", often abbreviated to TBW.
An alternative figure that is sometimes specified is DWPD, or Drive Writes Per Day.
These figures are both closely related to how much data you can write to a drive within the period that the drive is covered by warranty.
DWPD specifies how much data you can write per day and still expect to reach the warrantied lifetime, if you write half that amount per day then you will double your life, double that amount of writes and you will half the life.
TBW instead simply gives the total expected lifetime of the drive.
Neither figure provides an absolute "it will die after this amount of writes" but they set the bar for an approximate lifetime based on your usage requirements and combined with your knowledge of what you are using the drive for. You could get lucky and have a drive which lasts twice as long as the figure, but you should be considering replacing the drive or having a backup ready when you get close to that figure.