Is there a "clever" way to draw curved lines between nodes without them to go all through the picture?
Here is my MWE :
\documentclass[11pt]{beamer}
\usepackage{ulem}
\usepackage{tikz-qtree}
\usepackage{tikz-qtree-compat}
\usetikzlibrary{positioning}
\usepackage{philex}
\begin{document}
\begin{frame}{Contraintes sur le mouvement}
\lb{}{La fille que j'aidais aime ce que tu détestes.}
\begin{center}
\begin{tikzpicture}[scale=.8]
\tikzset{every tree node/.style={align=center,anchor=north}}% to allow linebreaks
\Tree
[.TP
[.DP
[.DP \edge[roof]; {La fille} ]
[.\node(aidais){CP}; \edge[roof]; {que j'\fbox{aidais}} ] ]
[.T$'$
[.\node(temps) {V\\\Huge\color{blue}?}; ]
[.VP
[.DP \edge[roof]; {\sout{La fille...}} ]
[.V$'$
%[.V \fbox{aime} ]
[.V \node(aime){\fbox{aime}}; ]
[.\node(détestes) {CP}; \edge[roof]; {ce que tu \fbox{détestes}} ] ] ] ] ]
\node (aidais2) [below=.7cm of aidais] {};
\node (aidais3) [right=.2cm of aidais2] {};
\node (temps2) [below=.3cm of temps] {};
\node (détestes2) [below=.7cm of détestes] {};
\node (détestes3) [right=.3cm of détestes2] {};
%\draw[semithick,->] (aidais3)..controls +( west:1) and +(east:1)..(temps2);
%\draw[semithick,->] (aime)..controls +( west:1) and +(east:1)..(temps2);
%\draw[semithick,->] (détestes3)..controls +( west:4) and +(east:4)..(temps2);
\draw[-latex] (aidais3.south) -- (temps.south west);
\draw[-latex] (aime.south) -- (temps.south east);
\draw[-latex] (détestes3.south) -- (temps.south);
\end{tikzpicture}
\end{center}
\end{frame}
\end{document}
And here is the result :

My question is : What code could draw the arrows to go 'around' the trees--not through it-- in order to reach the interrogation dot without them to cross each other ?
I've tried many different codes, but I don't really understand what I do, I change the options randomly to discover what they do, but I can't find a way do to it.
This is an example amoung many others, and I'm always embarrassed with these arrows. So I'm looking for a solution that could be generalized to similar examples (arrows on trees). And I don't even know where to look for in the tikz documentation.
Thanks for your help!

\strutinside your\fboxes so that they all are the same size (and possibly reduce the\fboxsepto.5pt. (Also your example lacks the relevantinputenc/fontenccombination to display the accented characters, although I assume this is just an oversight in the MWE. – Alan Munn Feb 04 '14 at 23:47