biblatex's alphabetic style is very flexible when it comes to generating the label, which can be highly customised when using Biber; so in what follows we will have to use Biber.
The following seems to come very close to what you need.
You will have to load biblatex with the options style=alphabetic, maxnames=999, minalphanames=3, firstinits=true, backend=biber
\usepackage[style=alphabetic, maxnames=999, minalphanames=3, firstinits=true, backend=biber]{biblatex}
to use the alphabetic style with all names displayed in the bibliography, at least three names in the label (if available) and only initials.
The label format becomes
\DeclareLabelalphaTemplate{
\labelelement{
\field[final]{shorthand}
\field{label}
\field[strwidth=4,strside=left,ifnames=1]{labelname}
\field[strwidth=2,strside=left,ifnames=2]{labelname}
\field[strwidth=1,strside=left]{labelname}
}
\labelelement{
\field{year}
}
}
This will print the first four letters of a single name, the first two letters each of two names and the first letter of the last name if more names are present. The year will always be included in full.
\renewcommand*{\finalnamedelim}{\multinamedelim}
\renewcommand*{\labelnamepunct}{\addcolon\space}
We also redefine the delimiters between names (no "and" or the like, just a simple comma for the last name in the list) and the punctuation between name and title in the bibliography as well as the order of publisher and location:
\renewbibmacro*{publisher+location+date}{%
\printlist{publisher}%
\setunit{\addcomma\space}%
\printlist{location}%
\setunit{\addcomma\space}%
\usebibmacro{date}%
\newunit}
MWE
\documentclass[ngerman]{article}
\usepackage[utf8]{inputenc}
\usepackage[T1]{fontenc}
\usepackage{filecontents}
\usepackage{lmodern}
\usepackage{babel}
\usepackage{csquotes}
\usepackage[style=alphabetic,maxnames=999,minalphanames=3,firstinits=true]{biblatex}
\usepackage{hyperref}
\begin{filecontents*}{\jobname.bib}
@book{tabmet,
author = {Ulrich Fischer and Max Heinzler and Roland Kilgus and Friedrich Näher and Stefan Oesterle and Heinz Paetzold and Werner Röhrer and Andreas Stephan and Ralf Winkow},
title = {Tabellenbuch Metall},
edition = {42},
year = {2002},
publisher = {Verlag Europa-Lehrmittel},
location = {Haan-Gruiten},
}
@book{techmech:elast,
author = {Walter Schnell and Dietmar Gross and Werner Hauger},
maintitle = {Technische Mechanik},
volume = {2},
title = {Elastostatik},
edition = {4},
publisher = {Springer},
date = {2002},
location = {Berlin},
}
@book{fohi,
title = {Formeln + Hilfen zur höheren Mathematik},
author = {Gerhard Merziger and Günter Mühlbach and Detlef Wille and Thomas Wirth},
location = {Springe},
publisher = {Binomi},
date = {2004},
}
@book{matlab,
author = {Alfio Quarteroni and Fausto Saleri},
title = {Wissenschaftliches Rechnen mit MATLAB},
translator = {Klaus Sapelza},
publisher = {Springer},
date = {2006},
location = {Berlin},
}
\end{filecontents*}
\renewcommand*{\finalnamedelim}{\multinamedelim}
\renewcommand*{\labelnamepunct}{\addcolon\space}
\DeclareLabelalphaTemplate{
\labelelement{
\field[final]{shorthand}
\field{label}
\field[strwidth=4,strside=left,ifnames=1]{labelname}
\field[strwidth=2,strside=left,ifnames=2]{labelname}
\field[strwidth=1,strside=left]{labelname}
}
\labelelement{
\field{year}
}
}
\renewbibmacro*{publisher+location+date}{%
\printlist{publisher}%
\setunit{\addcomma\space}%
\printlist{location}%
\setunit{\addcomma\space}%
\usebibmacro{date}%
\newunit}
\addbibresource{\jobname.bib}
\addbibresource{biblatex-examples.bib}
\begin{document}
\cite{tabmet,techmech:elast,fohi,matlab,wilde}
\printbibliography
\end{document}

biblatex? (Your question is taggedbiblatexbut you do not mention it and seem to have only tried BibTeX styles so far.) – moewe Apr 03 '14 at 13:44