I would like to suppress equation numbers for unlabeled (or better, unreferenced) equations but keep the equation count going. I am using the align environment throughout. Imagine \mathtoolsset{showonlyrefs} but with an equation number increment for every equation not just the visibly tagged ones.
(I prefer equation numbers everywhere, my coauthor does not; in this way we could keep the equation numbers synchronized while preparing the draft.)

massDensityOfEggYolk. Refer to the name, not the number. Awful problem setting gone. – Johannes_B May 20 '16 at 07:54labelandref, right? Use those identifiers instead of numbers. – Johannes_B May 22 '16 at 14:34