Everything you found explaining how to align equality signs works the same way for every other symbol, letter or number. Just put an & before the symbols that you want to align on. For your example:
\documentclass{article}
\usepackage{amsmath}
\begin{document}
\begin{align*}
\lvert f(x)-f(y)\rvert &= \lvert f(x)-f_n(x)+f_n(x)-f_n(y)+f_n(y)-f(y)\rvert \\
&\le \lvert f(x)-f_n(x)\rvert+\lvert f_n(x)-f_n(y)\rvert+\lvert f_n(y)-f(y)\rvert \\
&< \epsilon/3+\epsilon/3+\epsilon/3 \\
&= \epsilon
\end{align*}
\end{document}

As a side note: Since you are using the vertical bar as a delimiter here, you might want to use \lvert and \rvert instead of |. See e.g. this question for a discussion.
\documentclassdown to\end{document}that illustrates your problem. And also describe your problem. Without it's hard to reproduce and understand the problem. Inline math ($…$) is usually unaligned. Do you want displayed math with multiple lines? – Schweinebacke May 15 '17 at 16:20