Is there a bibliography style that
Reverses first author's first and last name
Directly display the journal. Not like:
In: The Journal
Order (alphabetical) the references by first author's last name
Use "and" instead of comma to list the last author
An example is the following:

authoryearstyle meets almost all of your four requirements. And can be easily customized to meet number 2 with https://tex.stackexchange.com/a/10686/105447. For a quick start with biblatex: https://tex.stackexchange.com/a/13513/105447. But there are plenty of sources on the matter, including here on the site. – gusbrs Mar 29 '18 at 23:23