easylist does its own list environment independent of LaTeX's so you can't really integrate one into the other without rewriting pretty much the whole thing. Here's a different implementation that does only half the job of easylist: making @ mean \item and multiple @ mean nested lists—the half you want. The new command here, \easyitem, does no formatting at all, so the other half, the layout, is left to the surrounding list environment, so you can use the enumerate package or enumitem or any other you prefer for formatting.
\easyitem[<char>] makes <char> (which should be one single character, defaults to @) an active token that does the list bookkeeping. \easyitem changes the catcode of <char> (locally), so naturally the list will not work in the argument to another command (much like a verbatim command). The \easyitem command is supposed to be used inside a list environment, and it will use that same list environment for deeper levels. So
\begin{enumerate}
\easyitem[@]
@ one
@@ two
\end{enumerate}
is equivalent to
\begin{enumerate}
\item one
\begin{enumerate}
\item two
\end{enumerate}
\end{enumerate}
and if you had used itemize or description or any other, it would do the same thing with those environments.
Here's the code in a filecontents environment, and an example below:
\begin{filecontents}{easyitem.sty}
\ifdefined\AtEndEnvironment
\else\RequirePackage{etoolbox}\fi
\newcount\easyitem@level
\newcount\easyitem@currlevel
\easyitem@currlevel=1
\newif\if@ineasyitem
\newif\if@ineasyitemend
\newif\if@easyitembalancing
\newcommand\easyitem[1][@]{%
\edef\easyitem@char{\unexpanded{#1}}%
\@ineasyitemtrue
\global\@easyitembalancingfalse
\AtEndEnvironment{\@currenvir}{\easyitem@final@balance}
\expandafter\easyitem@active\expandafter{\easyitem@char}%
\ignorespaces}
\def\easyitem@active#1{%
\begingroup
\lccode`\~=`#1
\lowercase{\endgroup
\let~\easyitem@activeitem}%
\catcode`#1=\active}
\def\easyitem@activeitem{%
\global\easyitem@level=0
\easyitem@item}
\def\easyitem@item{%
\global\advance\easyitem@level by 1
\futurelet\easy@let\easyitem@count}
\def\easyitem@count{%
\ifx\easy@let\easyitem@activeitem
\expandafter\expandafter
\expandafter\easyitem@item
\expandafter\@gobble
\else
\expandafter\easyitem@do
\fi}
\def\easyitem@do{%
\ifcase
\ifnum\easyitem@currlevel=\easyitem@level 0\fi
\ifnum\easyitem@currlevel>\easyitem@level 1\fi
\ifnum\easyitem@currlevel<\easyitem@level 2\fi
\relax
\expandafter\item
\or\expandafter\easyitem@decr
\or\expandafter\easyitem@incr
\fi}
\def\easyitem@decr{%
\expandafter\easyitem@repeat\the\numexpr
\easyitem@currlevel-\easyitem@level;\easyitem@decr\end}
\def\easyitem@incr{%
\expandafter\easyitem@repeat\the\numexpr
\easyitem@level-\easyitem@currlevel;\easyitem@incr\begin}
\def\easyitem@final@balance{%
\if@ineasyitem \if@ineasyitemend \else
\global\easyitem@level=1
\global\@easyitembalancingtrue
\easyitem@decr
\fi\fi}
\def\easyitem@repeat#1;#2#3{%
\ifnum#1=0
\if@easyitembalancing \expandafter\@gobbletwo \fi
\expandafter\item
\else
\ifx#3\end \@ineasyitemendtrue \fi
\expandafter#3\expandafter{\@currenvir}%
\ifx#3\begin
\advance\easyitem@currlevel by 1
\ifnum#1>1 \item\relax \fi
\fi
\expandafter#2%
\fi}
\end{filecontents}
\documentclass{article}
\usepackage{easyitem}
\usepackage{enumitem}
\usepackage{color}
\begin{document}
\begin{enumerate}[label={\color{red}\Roman*}]
\easyitem[@]
@ First % -> 1. First
@@ Second % -> 1.1. First
@@ Third % -> 1.2. Third
@ Fourth % -> 2. Fourth
\end{enumerate}
\end{document}
The example above makes:
