Running latex from the current Debian stable on
\documentclass[british]{article}
\usepackage[british]{babel}
\begin{document}
\showhyphens{memorandum}
\end{document}
yields
mem-o-ran-dum
At the same time, https://www.ushuaia.pl/hyphen/?ln=en, which is, using its own words, “based on TeX system”, says
memor•andum
when choosing English (GB). This was also the hyphenation point in a text of mine as of May 2023 using one of my TeX installations (which is now gone, alas); the hyphenation has apparently changed in some direction.
These two hyphenation patterns have no common hyphenation point; at least one of them is probably very wrong. The 5th, 6th, 7th, and 9th printed editions of Oxford Advanced Learner's Dictionary of Current English by A S Hornby say
memo•ran•dum
The New Oxford Spelling Dictionary, The Writers' and Editors' Guide to Spelling and Word Division by Maurice Waite, 2005, ISBN 0-19-860881-0, ISBN 978-0-19-860881-3 (cf. an online library), says on page 313,
memo|ran¦dum
memo|randa
memo|ran¦dums
The bar | is a primary division point (“at which a word can be divided under almost any circumstances”) and the broken bar is a secondary division point (“at which a word is best divided only if absolutely necessary […]”); cf. page x. Other words in the dictionary may have more than one primary or secondary division point, so it's a matter of taste or convention of what to do with this distinction in (La)TeX, and the word list should be interpreted according to the guide at the start of the book anyway.
Being a non-native speaker, I can only suggest that the version from the spelling-and-word-division dictionary is probably authoritative; cf. http://comp.text.tex.narkive.com/9kbsxiTL/british-english-hyphenation#post3.
I have access neither to the most recent edition of the aforementioned dictionary nor to The Oxford minidictionary of spelling and word division. I also don't have access to the data in https://www.oed.com/dictionary/memorandum_int, as they are behind a paywall. If anyone has access and would like to confirm/refute using these sources, please yell.
I kindly ask the British native speakers among you to double-check and, if necessary, adjust or suggest adjusting the UK-hyphenation patterns.
An e-mail concerning the issue has been sent to the maintainers of ushuaia.pl. Hyph-utf8 has received an issue report, too.
\hyphenation{memo-ran-dum}would over-ride either set of patterns, but asking whether it is right or wrong can't have a simple answer – David Carlisle Jul 22 '23 at 15:32