I believe it is correct to add the abstract to my TOC but I don't know how. This Answer talking about adding the abstract chapter to the TOC. I'm using Lyx and if I output to .tex file this is what I see.
\documentclass[english]{report}
\usepackage[T1]{fontenc}
\usepackage[latin9]{inputenc}
\setcounter{secnumdepth}{3}
\setcounter{tocdepth}{3}
\makeatletter
%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%% User specified LaTeX commands.
\usepackage{babel}
\makeatother
\usepackage{babel}
\begin{document}
\title{My Title}
\author{My Name}
\maketitle
\tableofcontents{}
\begin{abstract} %% This isn't a chapter!
My Abstract isn't a chapter.
Abstract is created with begin{abstract} unlike in questions I LINKED to and have been marked as a duplicate. In that example abstract is a chapter.
Does this affect the correct use of getting my Abstract into the TOC?
Assuming that the abstract and acknowledgement contents is typeset using a \chapter*{...},
Well it isn't, So what do I do in my case?

\addcontentslinewill be your friend here :) for example,\addcontentsline{toc}{section}{Abstract}– cmhughes Mar 11 '14 at 22:27begin{Abstract}. – Another Compiler Error Mar 12 '14 at 15:09