Tricky one, but doable if you work systematically. You might want to look at my guide to beamer overlays (also available as a TUGboat article, currently only to TUG members).
What you need to do is use the idea of relative slide positions, indicated by +, . and numbers in parenthesis. I'll explain the detail in comments in the code (trying to gie this up-front is tricky):
\documentclass{beamer}
\begin{document}
\begin{frame}{Slide}
\begin{itemize}
% First item on slide 1 onwards. The `+` will be replaced here by a `1` here:
% of course if you add material before hand absolute value will change!
\item<+-> Blabla
% Second item on same slide as first: `.` repeats the previous number
\item<.-> Blabla
% Third item appears on third slide: `+` is slide 2 here, so `+(1)` is slide 3.
\item<+(1)-> Blabla
\end{itemize}
% Repeat the preceding `+` (`2`) but back-up one to `1`, with the second `.`
% replaced simply by `2`.
\only<.(-1)-.>{A}%
% Again, repeat `2` (the last value `+` stood for)
\only<.>{B}%
% Auto-increment `+` to `3` and insert
\only<+>{First:}%
% Repeat `3` again
\only<.>{$1+1=$}%
% Two simple auto-increments
\only<+>{$2$}%
\only<+>{Second:}%
\end{frame}
\end{document}
Done this way, nothing is hard-coded so it should be possible to use the code flexibly.
(To do this sort of thing, I'd start with the hard-coded numbers then replace one at a time by the relative specs.)
\onlyusages, thanks! The link does not seem to work. – Heinrich Ody Jul 19 '14 at 13:48+gets incremented each time you use it, so\only<+>{\only<+> ...turns into something like\only<3>{\only<4> .... – Joseph Wright Jul 19 '14 at 13:51