You seem to want to manually format citations, and also to have them numeric, while being able to cite some sort of author or other aspect. The below idea is not generally recommended but I think does occasionally have its uses in unusual documents.
You mean like this? -- here is how to use free format bibliography items (the file example.bib would normally be external but here it is embedded within the example). However you are going to find it impossible to extract parts of it as you suggest. It is surely a lot easier just to craft an appropriate output for properly entered data, than to parse your free-form entry.
If your text citation is going to be consistent for each entry you could manually insert that into a different field and use that directly. I have appropriated the abstract field for this purpose below.
\documentclass [12pt]{article}
\usepackage[citestyle=numeric,
sorting=none] % List citation in order they appear
{biblatex}
\DeclareCiteCommand{\citeabstract}
{\boolfalse{citetracker}%
\boolfalse{pagetracker}%
\usebibmacro{prenote}}
{\printfield{abstract}}
{\multicitedelim}
{\usebibmacro{postnote}}
\usepackage{filecontents}
\begin{filecontents*}{example.bib}
@BIBNOTE{note:alien,
note = {Smith, P \& Benn, J 2012, This is a freeform reference, Panamanian Journal of Toenail Clippings},
}
@BIBNOTE{note:bassnote,
note = {This is just a note but could be a reference if you like and bits could be \textbf{bold for} example},
}
@BIBNOTE{note:note44,
note = {Blogs, P \& Frog, J 2012, This is a freeform reference, Panamanian Journal of Hairball Research},
abstract = {(Blogs \& Frog, 2012)}
}
\end{filecontents*}
\bibliography{example}
\begin{document}
Beware the Jabberwock my son\cite{note:note44}, the jaws that bite\cite{note:bassnote,note:alien}.
This takes the abstract field for\cite{note:note44} and punches it out \citeabstract{note:note44}.
\printbibliography
\end{document}
