Just divide the path in three if you want the second part dashed.
If you write NodeName.degreee (for example X.130) you can position the end or the beginning of the path exactly where you need. Imagine the node is a circle angle with the east anchor = 0 degrees, so the south anchor is -90, the north = 90, the east = 180, etc.
\documentclass[border=1in]{standalone}
\usepackage{tikz}
\usetikzlibrary{positioning}
\tikzset{
block/.style={
rectangle, draw, fill=blue!20,
text width=5em, text centered, rounded corners, minimum height=4em
}
}
\begin{document}
\begin{tikzpicture}
\node [block] (X) {X};
\node [block] [below left=of X] (A) {A};
\node [block] [above left=of X] (a) {a};
\node [block] [below right=of X] (B) {B};
\node [block] [above right=of X] (b) {b};
\draw (A) to[bend right] (X.-130) node[below left=4pt and 5pt] {$q(x)$};
\draw[dashed] (X.-130) to[bend right, looseness=.2] (X.130);
\draw[->] (X.130) to[bend right] (a);
\draw (B) to[bend left] (X.-50) node[below right=4pt and 5pt] {$f(x)$};
\draw[dashed] (X.-50) to[bend left, looseness=.2] (X.50);
\draw[->] (X.50) to[bend left] (b);
\end{tikzpicture}
\end{document}

Edit: gorgeous marmot's answer could be simplified without using reverse clipping and putting the straight line behind the X node, like in marya's answer but using on background layer from backgrounds library to not draw it twice.
\documentclass[border=1in]{standalone}
\usepackage{tikz}
\usetikzlibrary{positioning,backgrounds}
\tikzset{
block/.style={
rectangle,
text width=5em, text centered, rounded corners, minimum height=4em, draw, fill=blue!20
},
}
\begin{document}
\begin{tikzpicture}
\node[block] (X) {X};
\node [block] [below left=of X] (A) {A};
\node [block] [above left=of X] (a) {a};
\node [block] [below right=of X] (B) {B};
\node [block] [above right=of X] (b) {b};
\begin{scope}[on background layer]
\path[->] (A) edge[bend right=90] node[near start, above left] {$q(x)$} (a);
\path[->] (B) edge[bend left=90] node[near start, above right] {$f(x)$} (b);
\end{scope}
\begin{scope}[dashed]
\clip[rounded corners] (X.north west) rectangle (X.south east);
\path[->] (A) edge[bend right=90] (a);
\path[->] (B) edge[bend left=90] (b);
\end{scope}
\end{tikzpicture}
\end{document}
