Please see the following MWE. (Written in light of this answer.)
\documentclass{article}
\usepackage{polyglossia}
\usepackage{fontspec}
% Bangla
\setmainlanguage[numerals=Bengali, changecounternumbering=true]{bengali}
\newfontfamily\bengalifont[Script=Bengali,AutoFakeBold=4.0,AutoFakeSlant=0.4]{SolaimanLipi}
\newfontfamily\bengalifontbf[Script=Bengali,AutoFakeBold=4.0,AutoFakeSlant=0.4]{SolaimanLipi}
\newfontfamily\bengalifonttt[Script=Bengali,AutoFakeBold=4.0,AutoFakeSlant=0.4]{SolaimanLipi}
\newfontfamily\bengalifontsf[Script=Bengali,AutoFakeBold=4.0,AutoFakeSlant=0.4]{SolaimanLipi}
\setotherlanguage{english}
\defaultfontfeatures{Ligatures=TeX}
% Times New Roman used
\newfontfamily\englishfont[Mapping=tex-text, Ligatures=TeX]{Times New Roman}
\renewcommand\theenumi{\bngl{enumi}}
% alph lists for Bengali, bngl
\makeatletter
\def\bngl#1{\expandafter\@bngl\csname c@#1\endcsname}
\def\@bngl#1{%
\ifcase#1\or
ক\or
খ\or
গ\or
ঘ\or
ঙ\or
চ\or
ছ\or
জ\or
ঝ\else\@ctrerr\fi}
\makeatother
% \usepackage{enumitem}
\begin{document}
\begin{enumerate}
\item এক
\item দুই
\item তিন
\item চার
\end{enumerate}
\end{document}
The above code works fine and produces the expected results.
But breaks as soon as the enumitem package line is uncommented.
Is there any way I can use both my defined \bngl
and enumitem?

