Short answer: there isn't currently one.
In v2 (and v1) of siunitx, I used an approach based on an older package (sistyle). This means resetting everything to a known position, then adding detected changes as requested. There are a few issues with that. The first is it's relatively 'expensive' in TeX terms: we always have to do at least the reset and possibly more. The second is that it means I need to know what to look for to detect/reset. That leads to some issues. The approach is reflected in the option names: detect-... as that's what happens.
In v3, the approach is different. I only alter as many things as are required to match the user request. That is less work, it means I don't have to know what every possible change is, and it reflects the fact that math and text modes work differently. The downside is that I can't find a good name for all of the settings together.
The older detect-all is emulated by applying
mode = match ,
propagate-math-font = true ,
reset-math-version = false ,
reset-text-family = false ,
reset-text-series = false ,
text-family-to-math = true ,
text-series-to-math = true
but as you'll see there's no obvious name here. Notice that in some edge cases it won't do the same as in v2: that's why there is a fallback to load v2 as an option.
As such, you will need to set explicitly those font-control options you want to active.