I want to expand a two-variable function up to asymmetric orders in two expansion variables, i.e.
$$f(x,y) = T[f(x,y)] + \mathcal{O}(x^2,y^3,xy,xy^2).$$
Note that, while quadratic terms in $y$ are retained, the (also!) quadratic terms in $xy$ are contained in the higher-order terms. Hence the asymmetry (and the ultimate origin of the problem).
The intuitive two-variable expansion
Series[f[x,y],{x,x0,1},{y,y0,2}]
includes some of the undesired terms, namely $xy$ and $xy^2$.
I've seen the (maybe) related post Multivariable Taylor expansion does not work as expected. However, in this post the issue with the asymmetry in the two expansion variables is not commented, so the answers there are not directly applicable (in the best case).
Is there a simple way/function to perform this calculation?

f[x,y]==-f[-x,y]is asymmetric in x? – Ulrich Neumann Mar 04 '21 at 10:56O[x-x0]=?=O[(y-y0)^alfa] , alfa=2/3 or 3/2? or ...? – Ulrich Neumann Mar 04 '21 at 11:16f[x,y]like the one you are metioning in your comment.With respect to the orders of magnitude, you have approximately $\mathcal{O}(x) = \mathcal{O}(y^2)$, if that helps.
– Pablo G Mar 04 '21 at 11:36Out[28]= f[0, 0] + yDerivative[0, 1][f][0, 0] + (1/2)y^2Derivative[0, 2][f][0, 0] + xDerivative[1, 0][f][0, 0]`
– Daniel Lichtblau Mar 04 '21 at 15:14